I John 2 and the Ironic Memorial
My little children, I am writing these things to you so that you may not sin. But if anyone does sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous; and he is the atoning sacrifice for our sins, and not for ours only but also for the sins of the whole world.
Now by this we may be sure that we know him, if we obey his commandments. Whoever says, "I have come to know him," but does not obey his commandments, is a liar, and in such a person the truth does not exist; but whoever obeys his word, truly in this person the love of God has reached perfection. By this we may be sure that we are in him: whoever says, "I abide in him," ought to walk just as he walked.
Beloved, I am writing you no new commandment, but an old commandment that you have had from the beginning; the old commandment is the word that you have heard. Yet I am writing you a new commandment that is true in him and in you, because the darkness is passing away and the true light is already shining.
Whoever says, "I am in the light," while hating a brother or sister, is still in the darkness. Whoever loves a brother or sister lives in the light, and in such a person there is no cause for stumbling. But whoever hates another believer is in the darkness, walks in the darkness, and does not know the way to go, because the darkness has brought on blindness.
I am writing to you, little children, because your sins are forgiven on account of his name. I am writing to you, fathers, because you know him who is from the beginning. I am writing to you, young people, because you have conquered the evil one. I write to you, children, because you know the Father. I write to you, fathers, because you know him who is from the beginning. I write to you, young people, because you are strong and the word of God abides in you, and you have overcome the evil one.Do not love the world or the things in the world. The love of the Father is not in those who love the world; for all that is in the world--the desire of the flesh, the desire of the eyes, the pride in riches--comes not from the Father but from the world. And the world and its desire are passing away, but those who do the will of God live forever.
Children, it is the last hour! As you have heard that antichrist is coming, so now many antichrists have come. From this we know that it is the last hour. They went out from us, but they did not belong to us; for if they had belonged to us, they would have remained with us. But by going out they made it plain that none of them belongs to us.
But you have been anointed by the Holy One, and all of you have knowledge. I write to you, not because you do not know the truth, but because you know it, and you know that no lie comes from the truth. Who is the liar but the one who denies that Jesus is the Christ? This is the antichrist, the one who denies the Father and the Son. No one who denies the Son has the Father; everyone who confesses the Son has the Father also.
Let what you heard from the beginning abide in you. If what you heard from the beginning abides in you, then you will abide in the Son and in the Father. And this is what he has promised us, eternal life.
I write these things to you concerning those who would deceive you. As for you, the anointing that you received from him abides in you, and so you do not need anyone to teach you. But as his anointing teaches you about all things, and is true and is not a lie, and just as it has taught you, abide in him.
And now, little children, abide in him, so that when he is revealed we may have confidence and not be put to shame before him at his coming.
If you know that he is righteous, you may be sure that everyone who does right has been born of him.
Do you have someone in your life that is like a grandfather or grandmother to you? It may actually be a parent of your parent, but it doesn’t have to be. This special kind of relationship isn’t restricted to a singular family tree. And it is special. This is a person who is enough older than us to live comfortably outside timely fads with which we are enchanted. Oh they know about the internet, but they are only on there really to keep up with you.They have been around long enough to know the difference between “the flavor of the week” and what is just eternal way of people; the things that never change. And because they have earned this perspective and wisdom, AND because they care about us, they choose to be involved in our lives. They generously offer us a peek behind the curtain; not to the specific circumstances of our futures, but to the inevitable opportunities and consequences of life. This person is someone about whom you secretly think, “When I grow up, I want to be just like them.” That is our friend John, the author of our letter. And what he wants is for us to get this truth for our own good.
John begins by reminding us that we are to earnestly pursue a righteous life. Not a religious life; not a life built around the game show of the appearance of blinding purity, and the insincere approval of the other players. The righteous life is jealously interested in only one opinion; that is, the opinion of God. She regularly reflects on the Words of God, not with the intention to use them in point proving, but rather to be changed and used by God’s words. He understands that God is up to something and is careful to look and listen, never too busy to join what God is doing when he has the eyes to see it.
God brings out the best in the righteous. The religious act fake around God because they are uncomfortable with him; unfamiliar with who he is. The righteous may act different in God’s presence, but only because we all like to be our best selves around the people that we love and admire most. And the righteous, like to enjoy as much time with God as they possibly can. It is their wish to spend every moment in the awareness that God is at hand and is seeing what they are seeing; sharing in their life.
A life characterized by this kind of relationship with God is not a storybook fantasy. It is not wishful thinking or the “blessing for very, very spiritual people.” Jesus begins by saying, “Blessed are the POOR in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.” This life is the life God wants for you and for me.
It is not a perfect life, however. Inevitably, there are moments when our eyes are drawn away from God and onto ourselves; when we choose to please ourselves rather than to please God. Though it is our aim to honor God with every thought, every word, every action, we do not always hit our mark.
What a comfort to know that in those times of failure we are not alone. Jesus, the one who lives in perfect community with God, is present to be our advocate, not only with words, but with his very self. The reach of his atonement devastates the guilt of our mistakes; it overwhelms our selfishness in God’s eyes. And Jesus is the cure not only for our wrong doings; He has the power and authority to forgive the sins of the entire world. Jesus is the right that rights all wrongs.Relationship with Jesus embodies more than the simple dismissal of our guilt before a righteous God Judge. Jesus invites us to know him and in him to know the perfect love of God. Is there any more valuable summons than this? We may hear others talk about their knowledge of God, but we should be unimpressed by cheap talk. Jesus’ life is characterized by his singular obedience to God, and if we are to know Jesus and share fellowship with him then we must commit ourselves to his path. The way of knowing Jesus is not the way of boasting; it is the way of obedience.
Today our message is an ancient one. It is an echo of the earliest law, the foundation upon which rests the faith of all those who have gone before. The Law of Moses recited in Leviticus includes the underpinning and summary of the relational aspect of the God’s law: You shall not take vengeance or bear a grudge against any of your people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself: I am the LORD.
God reminds that as his children, our actions bear his name and reflect on his character. We are to care for one another because He is the LORD and we are his children. We are the LORD’s.
Yet, we are also hearing this command in a new way. Jesus begins teaching with the words, “You have heard it said…” then he recites the old law. Jesus answers the old law in reply, “BUT I SAY to you…” and the ancient command is born again. God never changes, his desire of abundant life for Abraham and Moses and David, is the same torch that he carries for us. But when Jesus broke into the world and brought the Holy Spirit with him as a gift to everyone, literally the whole world changed. Paul tells us, “if anyone is in Christ, there is a new creation: everything old has passed away. See, everything has become new!”Christ claimed his own purpose for coming was not to abolish the law, but to fulfill it, which he did once for all in his ministry and resurrection. He now calls us to maintain the law fulfilled, in his death and continuing life as the head of the church. To uphold Christ’s law now is not to strive for God’s acceptance through righteousness. It is to please God in thankfulness because of Jesus’ reconciliation.
But just in case our theology is about to run away with us, let us bring our attention back to where the rubber meets the road. Our teacher lists simple, practical actions as the tell-tale sign of a person living in God’s light. A person of confession has fellowship with God and with his children. A person of obedience is following the path of Jesus. To these John adds that a person of loving action will never stumble in the darkness.
There has never been a shortage of religious talk in the world, but how far has this excess of discussion advanced Jesus’ cause? Declarations of spiritual maturity abound, but what is the quality of love found in the person? Jesus says, this is all that matters. She, who loves, lives in the light. He, who hates, will stumble and fall in darkness, regardless of his claims.
And just in case you are wondering if this teaching applies to you, rest assured, our message is for everyone. No one is exempt. Even those who are young need forgiveness for their sins. Even those who are old need a father-figure in their lives. And everyone in the middle lives with the struggle of evil and promise of overcoming it. We all have something to learn from this word; a new direction to take as a result of it.
For many of us receiving this word will mean finally breaking it off with the world. Oh, it’s been an innocent enough love affair, that dark and alluring stranger with an allusive appeal. It is always tempting to reach for that which is forbidden. John warns: the world and the things of the world are without the love of God; not for God’s inability but for the world’s disallowing. All that will be found in pursuit of the world and its things are sin, and the injury and pain that are its inevitable result. Greed and pride, selfish desire and illicit living all lead to destruction; and the nature of God and his people is eternal.And so, as we race toward God’s promised future, in the face of those who would spread a contrary message, we are to humbly and firmly take exception. Even from those with whom we may have shared fellowship and with which we have some things in common. we must remember what we have been taught and what we know to be true. Jesus is the truth.
Jesus is our source; nothing exists today apart from him and nothing ever will. He is the wisdom and word with which God sings love into the world. Jesus is our head; he is the only full revelation of God in history, and freely offers a way to abundant life today. He is the object of our thinking, and the character out of which we act. Jesus is our destination; he is seated at the right hand of God as the first born of all creation and the first born from the dead. It is his invitation that offers us light today, and leads us forward, forsaking even our fear of death.
Because we abide in this truth, because we abide in Jesus who is truth, we enjoy the inheritance of eternal life. That is not to say that we count ourselves among a fortunate few, as we bide our time in this life and wait to die, only then go to enjoy fellowship with God. We do not live in a holding pattern, waiting to make our final ascent and land in God’s airport at the end of this life. The death that offered us inheritance has already occurred. Our eternal life has already begun; the wheels have touched down. We’ve exited the craft trudged up to the gate bags in hand, and fallen into the arms of the God who welcomes us home.
Friends, we are already there! We have not seen or learned all of God that there is to know, and there is a greater abiding fellowship to be enjoyed with God in our future. But in the mean time, as we enjoy this life of abiding in God with Jesus, we join God’s welcoming party and anticipate the arrival of others into God’s fellowship. Ours is a work of invitation, of hospitality, of sacrificial service, and of love.
And so this morning we abide together. We sing songs to God who is our guest of honor, conscious that our performance is a witness to the people in the world around us.We observe the discipline of listening to the Holy Spirit here where it is easier, so that later when we find ourselves in some harder place, facing the temptation to choose our own selfish will over God’s, we are better practiced in obeying, familiar with the sound of his voice, and more prepared to listen.
We gather around the fellowship table of Jesus. We share in the emblems representing his body and blood, and honor his request that we remember him. At funeral homes all over this city, in any other memorial service scheduled for today, people will gather to celebrate the life of a dead person. It is a peculiarity and a sweet irony that we gather today to honor the death of a living person. We abide together in the living Jesus. Let’s pray.
Our Father, and our God, it is our pleasure to walk in your world. It is our desire to please you with our lives. It is our prayer that you would lead us into the service of your kingdom. May we have ears to hear your voice, eyes to see your opportunity, and may we rush to attend to your will.
Jesus, we are blessed to abide together in you. We pray that our confidence in your presence and your coming, will keep us from shame. Your righteousness saves us from our sin and into a new life. May we offer your invitation and share in your hospitality with your generosity.
Holy Spirit, we call for your abiding power to the measure of the task God has set before us. Awaken us to your presence, and empower us to listen and obey your leading. Shape us into a people united in purpose and boldly called by love.
This is our prayer in Jesus’ name. Amen.
























power of God, who raised him from the dead. And when you were dead in trespasses and the uncircumcision of your flesh, God made you alive together with him, when he forgave us all our trespasses, erasing the record that stood against us with its legal demands. He set this aside, nailing it to the cross. He disarmed the rulers and authorities and made a public example of them, triumphing over them in it.
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